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JuliusFawcett wrote:Can you accept that the response you have towards your mother may be the most appropriate response for you right now?

...Yes but the point of my post is to override it.

I would much rather be nice to her while she is still here than feel vindicated in my responses.

Dear Leo, You seem a very interesting individual. Thank you for your opinions. (i) Lucidity - Yes, i realized you were referring to my mother. But i had wanted to point out, that i am guilty of the same thing despite the ability to be cognizant of the situation, which you noticed. (ii) You mentioned...

From my angle, i'm just polite, quiet and i like to crack the occasional joke. But I've repeatedly run into situations where: (i) People end up trying to step on my head --> taking me for granted, talking down to me, being presumptuous etc. (ii) I seem to draw the abuser out of some people. In some ...

Dear Leo, Do you have any particular books in mind? On the subject of lucidity, i could argue that my consciousness is not able to supersede my subconscious, instinctive behaviour, frequently. Dear MOMO, ‘Practice makes Perfect’. First, you need to be grateful to yourself for even discerning that yo...

Hi I have been struggling with this for a very long time. I cannot help but blow up at my mother over very small things.. I'm now 36, and i seem to have become very rude since i as in my teens. she has some annoying habits, but that is not the point. I would very much just like to be polite in spite...