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Re: Is not having a social life bad?

If you aren't bothered by it, then it shouldn't matter what other people think. Personally, I don't think it's a bad thing, but it's not the way I would want to live my life.
by JessHenson
Sun Jan 17, 2016 10:17 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is not having a social life bad?
Replies: 8
Views: 4547

Re: The Ending of Our Relationship

The best thing you can do to move forward is to try to remove her from your life as much as possible. I would stop following her on social media, so it's not in your face all the time. Keep yourself busy and try to focus on what you want out of life, instead of what you don't have. Things will get e...
by JessHenson
Sun Jan 17, 2016 10:14 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The Ending of Our Relationship
Replies: 10
Views: 5550

Re: Did depression kill our relationship?

could the funeral have triggered a depressive episode? It's possible that it could've, but it's also possible that she really was having all those realizations in Egypt and had a difficult time expressing those feelings to you. The funeral could've triggered her to express how she was feeling. Were...
by JessHenson
Thu Jan 14, 2016 4:10 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Did depression kill our relationship?
Replies: 3
Views: 1689

Re: Can i get my ex back? What is your opinion?

What broke you up in the first place? Why do you want to get back together with her? Answering these may give you more clarity as to what you should do next. Maybe it would be better to move on and be in a relationship with someone who actually wants to be with you, instead of trying to force a rela...
by JessHenson
Sun Dec 06, 2015 10:27 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Can i get my ex back? What is your opinion?
Replies: 4
Views: 2034

Re: I don't know what to do

There is not a specific name for this, and it wouldn't be wise to put a label on yourself even if there is one. I can say that there are things you can do to not feel this way anymore, to not do the same things over and over, and to greatly enhance the quality of life. Have you talked to a professio...
by JessHenson
Sun Dec 06, 2015 10:23 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: I don't know what to do
Replies: 2
Views: 1706

Re: Uncomfortable by love?

Can you remember anything from your childhood that may have caused you to feel uncomfortable? Was your family affectionate with their words or actions (not just toward you, but in general)? Do you have siblings? If so, do they get uncomfortable by this as well? I can't say for sure why you feel like...
by JessHenson
Sun Dec 06, 2015 1:01 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Uncomfortable by love?
Replies: 1
Views: 1283

Re: Why do I keep making woman suffer?

I have strong unconcious desire to make woman suffer, to see powerlessness and tears in their eyes by manipulating them. I don't hit them and similar. I don't know why I keep doing it. First off, if this is something you are acknowledging, then you are not unconscious to it. It sounds like you are ...
by JessHenson
Wed Dec 02, 2015 11:03 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why do I keep making woman suffer?
Replies: 6
Views: 2804

Re: Got cheated on a year ago but still can't get over it

So let me get this straight... You don't trust him, and he's not doing anything to regain your trust? You're afraid he's going to run to her if you give him an ultimatum? No matter what you do, you feel you're not enough for him? And you still want this marriage to work? Why?? I think where she work...
by JessHenson
Thu Nov 19, 2015 5:13 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Got cheated on a year ago but still can't get over it
Replies: 15
Views: 7124

Re: Got cheated on a year ago but still can't get over it

I think you need to ask yourself whether it's something you truly want to move on from, and if so, why? Are you wanting it to work because you just had a child together? Because you're scared to be alone or worried about what the future would hold without him? Or is it truly because you love him and...
by JessHenson
Wed Nov 18, 2015 4:10 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Got cheated on a year ago but still can't get over it
Replies: 15
Views: 7124

Re: What's up with men and emotional attachment?

I don't think you're actively searching for emotionally unavailable men, but that's what you've gotten so far. It might be better to date someone who has been single for a while and gone through that healing. It's obvious that others see the potential in you, but that they are just not in a place to...
by JessHenson
Wed Nov 11, 2015 10:12 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What's up with men and emotional attachment?
Replies: 38
Views: 8039

Re: What's up with men and emotional attachment?

You aren't doing anything wrong. Sometimes, meeting the right person just takes a lot of trial and error. Maybe you are dating the wrong kind of men. You said both men were recently out of a divorce and had been cheated on. It sounds like you need to date men who have healed emotionally from their p...
by JessHenson
Wed Nov 11, 2015 2:11 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What's up with men and emotional attachment?
Replies: 38
Views: 8039

Re: Marijuana- My drive and desire to quit

I have personally never been a smoker, but I have worked with many people who have been in your position. What I have seen with them is that their reasons "why" were bigger than their reasons "why not" - that's what got them through. Most of the time, it wasn't the withdrawal sym...
by JessHenson
Sat Nov 07, 2015 2:26 am
 
Forum: Addictions
Topic: Marijuana- My drive and desire to quit
Replies: 4
Views: 2873

Re: Marijuana- My drive and desire to quit

First off, congratulations on moving forward with your life! Whenever a person has an addiction to something and decides to quit, it is monumental. You should be very proud of yourself. I would take you through step-by-step where your mindset needs to be to be successful, but it sounds like you are ...
by JessHenson
Fri Nov 06, 2015 4:36 am
 
Forum: Addictions
Topic: Marijuana- My drive and desire to quit
Replies: 4
Views: 2873

Re: Stale relationship; advice?

The answer is simpler than you think. Anything you want in the relationship, you give first. If you want more excitement and passion, bring more excitement and passion. You need more variety and spontaneity. Change things up - surprise him with a sexy outfit. Be playful. Greet him differently when h...
by JessHenson
Wed Nov 04, 2015 12:31 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Stale relationship; advice?
Replies: 1
Views: 948

Re: Monogamy vs Polygamy

This is a very big issue to disagree on. It's not a minor issue, such as who's going to do the dishes. If polygamy is something that he definitely wants, and it's something that you don't want, then the relationship will never work no matter how much you love each other. However, if it's something t...
by JessHenson
Wed Nov 04, 2015 12:21 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Monogamy vs Polygamy
Replies: 8
Views: 3510
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