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"Although beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, the feeling of being beautiful exists solely in the mind of the beheld." - Martha Beck :) Hello - As Martha Beck puts it, beauty is something you believe. There are people that will find you attractive and as you said, there are people th...

I honestly feel like we are saying the same thing.... We are talking about deciding what you will allow to accept as true or not true.

Whether a person looks, holds, or catches thoughts, at the end of the day, we still have the power to control what we think.

Controlling your thoughts is a matter of simply deciding what you think. When a person is in control of something they are the decision maker. So, why not decide (control) what you want to think? We decide the kind of reality that we want to live, the reality does not choose us. It's the same with o...

I feel you on that. I thought the same thing until I became adamant about it. Once I began refusing to accept those negative thoughts as my reality the better off I was. Of course it's a battle and I still combat negative thoughts, but I keep at it. I encourage you to keep at it. Whenever a negative...

It's important to understand that you can control your thoughts. There is no one forcing you to think these thoughts of inadequacy and there is no machine pumping such negativity into your mind. Anytime you start thinking those thoughts, you also have the power to think another thought. Change your ...

Hi - Well - while I can't reply to your post from a man's point of view, I can from a woman's. I believe confidence is this issue and because you are not confident and you focus on your height so much, you are running us (women) away. People, in general, are attracted to confidence, but for a woman,...

Jazzy, I first want to commend you for being so honest about how you feel. Not many people have the guts to do that. Not only do I commend you, but I also congratulate you. Yes, I congratulate you! Being honest is the first step towards improving yourself. Now that the issue is out in the open it wi...