You can’t always put out the fire the same way. The best way through anything, regardless of classification, is to go through it. I find what I want by finding what I don’t want first. When you go through hell, don’t pull over.
“She” may feel differently about how you see her behavior and what she chooses to or not to do. My point, it’s easy to identify the liabilities in others or in causes and conditions. The bottom line is: what will you do about your own conduct and decisions therein? You get to decide what is acceptab...
Good news/Bad news: you are your own problem; you are also your own solution. Trust will ultimately show where trust is given. If you don’t tell the whole truth, the remaining lie will be your truth. And by not telling the whole truth, you simply admit to not trusting who you say you trust. It’s you...
Often times my attachment to outcomes, leaves me disappointed. Your behavior will set the terms of your communications. Be kind, be necessary and be true. Do you trust you? Unreasonable people don’t know they’re unreasonable. Humans who feel safe; will occupy unsafe space. Are you safe? Does your pa...
@panicstate what I was referring to had much less to do with PAW’s as it had to do with my emotional development. While I wasn’t experiencing (PAW’s) per-say, I was experiencing a “Psychic Change!” That experience accelerated at 2years clean and it felt like when I was in detox just sobering up. Whi...
@panicstate what I was referring to had much less to do with PAW’s as it had to do with my emotional development. While I wasn’t experiencing (PAW’s) per-say, I was experiencing a “Psychic Change!” That experience accelerated at 2years clean and it felt like when I was in detox just sobering up. Whi...
When you’re going through hell, don’t stop. It will all pass maybe not as we like, but what goes up must come down. The beginning of my third year was horrible. Talking with others who also knew about the journey, helped me through a terrifying experience without using. Fear to faith, faith to god, ...
gregor7782 wrote:There’s a bit of good in the best of us. and a bit of bad in the best of us. Humans demonstrating human behavior. Good or bad is subjective.
A bit of good in the worst of us and a bit of bad in the best of us.
If you’re ok destroying what you think you want to protect, “her relationship with her husband” then go ahead and pose the question. But the question will only have two responses: 1. You get what you think you wanted 2. You don’t and you put a nuclear bomb in the family room of the family you want t...
If you’re ok destroying what you think you want to protect, “her relationship with her husband” then go ahead and pose the question. But the question will only have two responses: 1. You get what you think you wanted 2. You don’t and you put a nuclear bomb in the family room of the family you want t...
Another point, since you want to know, cause you did ask. I’m talking really about alcoholics and alcoholism. Acceptance. Came to believe. Made a decision. And that decision is none of my business, or yours. But the gift is being able to give away what was so freely given to me. Hope. Faith. Courage...